Wife's car is a lemon!

2004 Nissan Quest minivan.

I will never buy another Nissan. Nothing but problems, mostly electrical. Now the BCM (main computer) is bad and Nissan has stopped making them! WTF? I bought a used one from a wrecked car and it doesnt work...

Sorry to hear that. I owned two Nissan trucks in the 80's and 90's and they were highly dependable. Drove the last one for nine years, 190,000 miles, and only replaced the starter, battery, tires, and clutch slave cylinder in all the years. Mainly got rid of it due to rust issues, but mechanically it was sound.